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Since humans live considerably longer than companion animals, we are likely to outlive our beloved friends by many years. While this means that we can share our lives, if we wish, with numerous animals, it also means that we will likely outlive many of these cherished family members.
Coping with the death of an animal companion is one of life’s most difficult experiences. As we mourn the animal’s death we experience a variety of emotions. The grieving process consists of several stages such as shock and disbelief, denial, anger, guilt, depression and resolution.
Recently, Winston, our old, blind and deaf Terrier cross dog was sick. Besides rushing our dear friend to the veterinary hospital and getting him the best of care, my wife Lynn and I also had to consider how we would break any bad news to Gleannan, our four-year-old daughter, should Winston not recover. As Lynn drove Winston, Gleannan and I to the veterinary hospital, I referred to some books on pet loss – particularly those with sections pertaining to pet loss and children. Lynn and I answered our concerned daughter’s numerous questions regarding Winston’s welfare.
Thankfully, Winston’s illness was treatable and our spirited bundle of fur was back to his old self within a couple of weeks. But this illness reminded me that we should be prepared for the inevitable – including how we will handle the delicate situation with our daughter.
There was a time when there was little information or help available on this important topic. Now there are numerous good books on pet loss (as well as support groups and web sites) which offer assistance to people who are mourning the loss of an animal companion. It is important to give yourself plenty of time to mourn your loss and start the healing process.
Besides giving ourselves time to heal, it is also a good idea to memorialize our animal companions. Commemorating the life of a dear friend is a wonderful tribute to that animal. Some people create a special place in their home where they have photographs and items of the deceased animal. Others pay tribute by donating money or their time to a charity, such as an animal shelter. We planted a maple tree for each of our dogs who have died. These trees are living memorials to our cherished and much loved family members who will live forever in our hearts.
Note: In the next issue of Animal Welfare in Focus we will provide information on various pet loss resources available.
